Monday, 19 January 2026

Experiments in visible mending: darning

I don't think the term 'visible mending' existed when I was growing up, but it was certainly something my mum certainly practised.  My childhood clothes sometimes sported cool patches that I was allowed to pick out at the sewing shop, and the acid burns on my university 'chemistry' jeans were covered over with hand-embroidered flowers.  Darning, however, aimed to be largely 'invisible'.  It was also something I found fiddly and hated doing.

I've recently come across the idea of darning for visible mending.  I love the idea of mending things.  It fits well with frugality and good stewardship: two things I value highly.  And maybe attractive darning (combined with some new pointers on how to do it well) would be more fun?

We have a chair cushion that I'd like to try visible darning on, but I decided to practise on an holey towel first.  In a bit over an hour this afternoon, here's what I came up with:

The first attempt

The second - and a crude black one in the corner as I was getting tired

The section of the towel with the two mends

I'm pretty pleased with how they worked out!  I'm using very fine wool thread that I picked up from the op shop in Whangaparāoa when we were there in September, and following ideas from this video.  I learned a few things from these first attempts and may well move straight onto the chair squab next :-)

And, if I take to it, I'll probably buy a little darning loom (a tool I only very recently came across) which should make it easier to do neat darns with fine wool. 

Monday, 12 January 2026

Thoughts on asking God for things

I've just been reading 1 Samuel 1 and 2 (through to 2:10) and was particularly struck by 1 Samuel 1:18b:

Then the woman went her way and ate and drank with her husband, and her countenance was sad no longer.

Hannah ('the woman') is deeply distressed because she doesn't have in children; a situation made worse as her husband has two wives and the other has a bunch of children and is always rubbing in that discrepancy.

In the text I was reading today she brings this distress to God, asks for Him to give her a son, and promises that she will then give that son back to God (i.e. he will live in the temple and serve there right from when he's weaned).  Then comes the verse I quoted.  After bringing her distress to God and asking for a specific solution, she's calm and no longer sad.